KIU Boy & Girl Talk: Tackling Real Issues, Navigating Life's Challenges

KIU, Western Campus - Seeking to empower students with life's essentials, Kampala International University, Western Campus (KIU-WC) hosted a thought-provoking Boy and Girl Talk event on Tuesday, March 31, 2026. Organized by the Office of the Dean of Students' Affairs, the event featured separate sessions for boys and girls to address specific issues.

At the Girl Talk, Hadijah Nantale, Dean of Students Affairs, emphasized that the university's role extends beyond academics, serving as a source of guidance to nurture students into well-rounded individuals.

Asiati Mbabazi, University Secretary, KIU, led a presentation on relationships, highlighting the importance of mindfulness in friendships and other relationships. "Relationships are vital in life, but be cautious of the company you keep," she advised. She emphasized that every relationship involves emotions and expectations, and it is crucial to recognize when a relationship becomes toxic.

"Take a break when it gets toxic, or leave it for good if it yields no positive outcomes," she said. Ms. Mbabazi also stressed the value of productive competition and having role models, encouraging students to surround themselves with people who uplift and inspire them.

Pamela Musiimenta, from the School of Nursing Sciences, cautioned students about the impact of social media on mental health, emphasizing that it is not a reflection of reality. "Social media should be a window to the world, not a mirror of your worth," she said. She urged girls to protect their peace, love their real selves, and support other girls to do the same. "Social media is not going away, but how we use it can change everything," she noted.

Ms. Musiimenta encouraged students to be mindful of their social media use, saying, "Girls with dreams become women with vision, when they protect their minds." She emphasized that promoting mindful, balanced, and informed use can make social media a tool for mental health empowerment rather than distress. "Make sure you are the one using the phone, not it using you," she advised.

During an engaging presentation on reproductive health, Dr. Emmanuel Okurut, Head of Gynaecology Department, covered topics such as menstrual cycles, use of contraceptives, and cervical cancer screening for those who are sexually active. He also addressed common concerns and questions from students, providing guidance on maintaining healthy reproductive habits.

Speaking further, Dr. Erias Baguma, a psychiatrist at KIU Teaching Hospital and Research (THR), cautioned students about the dangers of digital footprints and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and intentionality. "Honour the woman that has led you to where you are, be eager to be the woman you are becoming. You are not just getting an education. You are becoming a woman," he said, urging students to prioritize their digital safety and well-being.

He highlighted the risks of sexting, nudes, and explicit messages, noting that "nothing digital is truly private" and that career consequences can follow.

At the Boy Talk session, H.E Clifton George Lamtoo, Guild President, highlighted the pressures faced by male students, saying, "The society does not expect a man to cry yet we go through a lot." This set the tone for an open and honest discussion.

Haulah Malkia, Deputy Dean of Students Affairs, reinforced the importance of the event, saying, "The management understands what students go through, and this session will benefit you in the present or near future."

Dr. Ibrahim Babangida Abubakar, Assistant Deputy Vice Chancellor, Academics and Research, advised students to minimize social media use, turn it into an educational hub, and use it to spread accurate information.

Dr. Umi Omar, CEO KIUTHR, shared alarming statistics on substance abuse, citing a 55.4% prevalence in Bushenyi district. She urged students to resist peer pressure and seek help if needed, emphasizing the importance of friendly talks with guardians and parents.

The event highlighted KIU's commitment to students' holistic development, providing a platform for open discussions on relationships, mental health, and social media use.